Ways Parents of Children With Autism Can Handle Bullying

August 22, 2023

As parents, we wish we could always protect our children, even when were not there. When we send our children to school, we’re under the impression that everyone is friendly and your child is making friends just fine. However, that’s not always the case, and it’s important to empower your children and encourage self-advocacy.

When you discover that your child is being bullied, you may feel a full range of emotions from anger to sadness. No parent wants their child to feel unwelcomed or ashamed because of who they are. To become an effective support system, here are a few ways parents and children with autism can handle bullying.

 

Start With a Conversation


Sometimes, children with autism won’t realize that they’re being bullied. This is why it’s important to introduce the qualities of a “good” friend versus a bully. Explaining to your child what bullying means and why it’s not okay is the first step towards self-advocacy. Letting children know that behavior that hurts or harms them in any way is inappropriate and is considered bullying.


Support and Assure Your Child


After explaining bullying to your child, be prepared to listen to their story without judgement. You want to provide a safe space for your child, so they can work out their feelings. Children with autism may have trouble communicating how they feel or may not feel ready to open up about the emotional effects of bullying.

It’s critical that you listen without making comments and learn as much as you can from the situation. After they express their feelings, empower your child and reassure them that this is NOT their fault and they’re not alone. Be sure to explain that bullying is never okay and that they deserve to be treated with respect.


Encourage Self-advocacy


When parents and teachers can do their best to stop bullying, another way parents and children with autism can handle bullying is by encouraging self-advocacy. To self-advocate means to:

·      Speak up for yourself

·      Communicate your needs and wishes

·      Having a sense of self-respect

·      Knowing your rights

·      Knowing where to go for help

Once you’ve taught your child what bullying is and what it sounds or looks like, you can teach your child how to stand up for themselves.


Know Your Rights & Speak Up


Every state, city, county, and school board district has a policy on bullying and some specific laws relating to bullying children with special needs. It’s essential that you know you and your child’s rights when these incidents take place. This way, you can move accordingly and find the resources you need. Check StopBullying.gov to find your state’s laws and your state’s Department of Education for more information.


We want our children and parents to be fully equipped with the resources they need to have adequate support. At HANDS, we offer parent education for autism to ensure that parents and caregivers have the knowledge to best support their child. For more information, don’t hesitate to contact our team.


June 23, 2026
Searching for the right ABA therapy practice can often be overwhelming, especially with the variety of options available in Charlotte. Knowing the right questions to ask can ensure that your family finds the best fit for your child. ABA therapy is an evidence-based approach that utilizes positive reinforcement to develop social-emotional, regulation, and daily living skills in individuals with autism. If you are searching for an ABA therapy practice in Charlotte, the following guidelines can help make the process easier for your family. Does this Practice Fall Within Your Family's Needs? One of the first things to consider when searching for an ABA provider is whether they can service your child and meet your family's needs. There are a few logistical factors that play a major role in determining whether a practice is a practical fit. Some key factors to consider include: Insurance coverage and accepted plans Age range serviced Proximity to your home Scheduling options and service availability Starting with this information will help narrow your search to practices that fit within the scope of your family's needs. Clinical Approach and Standards An ethical ABA practice will focus on individualized, compassionate, and client-centered care. Beware of one-size-fits-all or cookie-cutter programs with mandatory hours. All treatment plans and clinical hours should be determined through the assessment completed by a Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA). When considering a practice's clinical approach, look for: Assent-based care that focuses on the child's autonomy Positive reinforcement strategies, not punishment Natural Environment Teaching (NET) and play-based approach Neurodiversity-affirming values Credentialed and Experienced Staff A reputable ABA center will maintain qualified and credentialed staff with robust training and supervision. Look for a practice that has: Board Certified Behavior Analysts (BCBA) who are master's-level clinicians that administer the assessments, create the treatment plan, and supervise therapy sessions Registered Behavior Technicians (RBT) who provide 1:1 therapy under the supervision of the BCBA Comprehensive training with ongoing skill development opportunities for staff Supervision and clinical support from on-site BCBAs At HANDS, our technicians complete extensive onboarding training prior to working one-to-one with clients. In addition to the standard training, our team provides HANDS-specific training to all staff members to ensure consistent, quality care. We also maintain 100% clinical support from on-site BCBAs.
A smiling girl builds a colorful block tower while a clinician takes notes beside her.
June 12, 2026
Before an autism evaluation, thoughtful planning can help parents share key details and support their child through a new, unfamiliar setting.
A chalkboard shows the words “SUMMER CAMP” in colorful chalk.
June 11, 2026
Finding the right camp for a child with autism starts with knowing how much structure and support your child may need to feel comfortable this summer.
More Posts