When you received your child’s diagnosis, a million questions may have gone through your mind: how will my family react? What is the best parenting style for children with autism? How do I ensure I’m meeting my child’s needs?

An autism diagnosis may mean having to adjust your parenting methods. Parenting, in general, is full of detours and is far from a walk in the park. All parents need support, but you may need additional resources if your child has autism.

While an autism diagnosis can be life-changing, you must appreciate your child’s victories. Below are a few parenting tips to help you on your parenting journey.

Parenting Methods for Children With Autism

Many parents spend hours on Google trying to find the best parenting styles for their child with autism. Below, we compiled a list of the top three things to remember when parenting your child with autism.

Use Positive Discipline

Positive feedback and encouragement can be key motivators as a form of discipline for your child with autism. Spending most of your time correcting behaviors and monitoring their every move can be stressful for them, especially if you don’t acknowledge their positive actions. Knowing the balance between positive reinforcement and discipline will go a long way.

Celebrate Their Interests and Talents

If your child has a niche interest, encourage them to keep going with it. Recognizing your child’s talents and interests is key to building their communication, social, and occupational skills. This will also help boost their self-confidence and enhance their peer relationships. If your child loves music, invest in guitar or piano lessons! If your child enjoys puzzles, join them on a challenging one!

Utilize Your Resources

Utilizing your resources is one of the most important things you can do as a parent with a child with autism. At HANDS, we have ABA therapy training for parents to support children at home and school. Partnering with your child’s schoolteachers and getting the additional help you need to ensure your child succeeds will make a big difference.

What To Avoid When Parenting a Child With Autism

When you’re parenting a child with autism, it’s easy to want to watch their every move. You don’t want them to make a mistake or get overwhelmed. However, you could stunt their growth when you leap in to help at every inconvenience.

It’s normal for children to make mistakes, and they can grow from them. By being a helicopter parent, your child is unable to learn how to avoid certain mistakes. Allow your child to experience challenges and feel pride in problem-solving.



As parents, we strive for our children to be their best. We want our kids to succeed academically, have a healthy social life, and grow into happy adults. Allowing your child to grow on their own terms and supporting them along the way is key. However, forcing perfectionist ideals and expectations can be unhealthy for your child.